Balancing work, school and parenting is no small feat. Late-night study sessions, overlapping commitments, moments of self-doubt — and even the occasional baby-related mess — are all part of the experience. For students like Stevie Lewis in Boise State University’s online cyber operations and resilience program, this is the reality they navigate every day.
Earning a degree while raising a family takes determination, adaptability and perseverance. Despite exhaustion, stress and the urge to give up, student-parents like Lewis press on, motivated by their goals and the desire to build a better future for their families.
Balancing motherhood and coursework
After transferring from a community college, Lewis dove headfirst into Boise State’s cyber operations and resilience program, fully aware that the path ahead would not be easy. As a single parent raising three children, she balances school and family life every day.
Her greatest challenge so far has been managing the emotional and mental effects of being both a full-time student and sole caregiver.
“It is extremely tough and sometimes I cry,” she said, noting how her children’s needs, particularly her three-year-old’s habit of climbing over her while she studies, make it difficult to focus.
“Kids need that attention on a constant basis, and I never want them to feel dismissed or unacknowledged,” she continued. “It is my duty as their mother to make sure they feel fully loved and fully accepted because you only get one chance as they grow up so fast.”
What makes Lewis’ story even more remarkable is how much she’s had to rely on herself. After splitting from her partner six months into the program, she found herself solely responsible for her family’s financial needs and her education. The situation has been challenging, but Lewis refuses to let it break her spirit.
“I knew I had to do this, not just for me but for my kids. It is about proving to myself that I could do this. That I wasn’t just a statistic. I do not want to be a failure, and I want to provide the best life for my children.”
Finding strength, building a future
Lewis’ decision to pursue cybersecurity was rooted in practical needs and personal interests.
“After COVID, I realized many jobs were not as secure as we thought, and moving into something remote seemed like a smart choice. I’ve always had a passion for criminal justice and forensics. A friend who worked in sales introduced me to cybersecurity. At first, I was hesitant because I did not want to deal with math, but the more I researched, the more I got hooked. The forensics aspect excites me quite a bit.”
What drives her isn’t just the future — it’s recognizing how far she’s already come. “I’ve gained more confidence in myself than I thought possible. I’m not just surviving, I’m thriving.”
Lewis’ journey has not been easy, but it has been driven by a belief in her own abilities and a deep love for her family.
“Even when it’s hard, I remind myself that I’m doing this for stability and my kids. I’m breaking the cycle of what I thought wasn’t possible.”
Her advice to others, and herself, is filled with hard-earned wisdom.
“I’d tell myself not to underestimate my potential,” she said. “I lacked confidence and guidance growing up, but this journey has shown me the value of discipline, passion and setting goals. Progress may be slow, but it’s rewarding, and I know my kids will be thankful for my unwillingness to give up.”
As she reflects on her path, she leaves others with a powerful question: What kind of legacy do you want to leave for your family?
Recognizing motivated parents
The online format of the cyber operations and resilience program helps parents balance school, work and family life. With asynchronous classes, students can complete assignments after their kids are asleep or while they’re at school. The flexibility of learning from home also eliminates the need to commute, giving that time back for parenting, work or rest.
Each course runs for seven weeks, with a built-in break between sessions, providing students time to recharge before beginning the next class.
The program recognizes that career and academic growth doesn’t pause for parenthood. With the right support, motivation and perseverance, these parents prove that career advancement is possible.
Learn more about the cyber operations and resilience program
Boise State’s cyber operations and resilience program can open doors to new opportunities and a brighter future — and we’re here to support you every step of the way. Whether you’re exploring if an online program is right for you or need help transferring credits, connecting with a student success coach is the perfect first step.
Ready to learn more? Attend one of our online information sessions or contact a student success coach today.